When the world moves on, but you can’t.
Grief is a lonely, exhausting place. Most of that loneliness comes from other people not knowing what to do with it.
I started GrieveWell because I know how it feels when the world moves on and your grief does not.
If you feel stuck, or you can tell that people expect you to be further along than you are, there is nothing wrong with you. You are grieving.
I do not believe in getting over it. I believe in learning to live alongside it. That is what everything here is built for.

I'm Matt, a certified grief coach and funeral celebrant who has spent years sitting with people in the hardest moments of their lives.
You might already know me from Grief Support UK, the Facebook community. If so, hello again. If not, you're very welcome here.
When I lost my dad, I learned that grief needs space, not solutions.
As a funeral celebrant, I've stood with hundreds of families in the hardest week of their lives. As a grief coach, I sit with people in the months and years after, when everyone else has gone home.
I know this room.
You don't have to perform or pretend here. I've walked these floors.
Working with me starts with being heard.
I listen, and I witness what you’re carrying, without trying to tidy it up or hurry you along. What you’re feeling makes sense, and there’s room for all of it here.
When you’re ready, I offer guidance and practical tools to help. That might be coaching, meditation, or simple techniques from NLP that give you something to reach for on the hard days.
And you have me in your corner. Not just on our calls, but in between them too.
I work in two ways.
Sometimes grief feels too heavy to carry alone, and too private to share in a room full of people.
Working with me, individually, gives you a calm, private space to look at what you are actually carrying. We go at your pace.
This tends to suit people whose loss is complicated, or raw, or difficult to say out loud in front of others.
Isolation is often the hardest part of loss.
My support groups are small and closed, running over six weeks with the same handful of people each time. You get to say the true thing out loud and watch other people nod.
This tends to suit people who are managing, but doing it alone, and are tired of being the only one who still wants to talk about it.
It's hard to know what you need when you're in the middle of it.
Start with one of these, and we can work out the rest together.

Fourteen days of support, starting at the beginning of every month.
By the end, you won’t be “over it”.
But you’ll be able to put words to what’s happening to you, and you’ll have a few things to reach for on the hard days.
Each morning you recieve an email from me. Alongside it a private WhatsApp group and a weekly Zoom.
Suggested contribution £15.

A free twenty-minute phone call. Just the two of us.
It’s a space for you to share what’s going on, and for me to share what might help.
Sometimes that might be one of my programmes, or another organisation that suits you better.
The Find Your Footing journal
All fourteen days in one place: the teaching, the practices, and space to write. Start whenever you like, and go at your own pace. £4.50.
Get the journal
Toolkits
I've also written some short toolkits for the hard days, for when you don't recognise yourself anymore, and for understanding what grief is doing to you. Yours to download and keep, and to come back to whenever you need them.
And you're always welcome in Grief Support UK on Facebook. Thousands of people who understand, wherever they are with it.
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